Behind many of our judgments are needs that feel vulnerable to...
Pep@peptalksblog
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Sep 10, 2025
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Behind many of our judgments are needs that feel vulnerable to admit to ourselves.
E.g. When my head judges someone to be a bigot, my heart might whisper “I want to feel free & safe. But I feel my way of being is threatened by others.”
Funnily, we might share that sentiment.
E.g. When my head judges someone to be a bigot, my heart might whisper “I want to feel free & safe. But I feel my way of being is threatened by others.”
Funnily, we might share that sentiment.
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If I pause before judging, I can speak the truth:
What do I really care about here?
Where is the love in my judgment?
What might I need or desire right now. that is expressed through judgment—and how might I express that with clarity & ownership?
What do I really care about here?
Where is the love in my judgment?
What might I need or desire right now. that is expressed through judgment—and how might I express that with clarity & ownership?