GIRLS LOOK FOR GUYS TO TAKE CARE OF THEM At the end of the day,...

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GIRLS LOOK FOR GUYS TO TAKE CARE OF THEM

At the end of the day, every girl's looking for the guy who'll take care of her needs... be those what they may.

Girls may seem different… but they are the same.

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Women will tell you 100 different things they want.

Some girls say they want strong guys.

Some girls say they want sensitive men.

Some say they want guys who will lead.

Others say they want guys who will listen.
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Sometimes they say they want a guy who's funny.

At other times they say they want a man who knows when to be serious.

They will say they want a guy who isn't some loner weirdo.
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Then in the same breath they'll say they want a guy who isn't afraid to be different and be his own man.
They'll say they want to get shagged, HARD, by some guy who knows their bodies better than they know themselves.
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But they'll also say they want someone soft and loving whose arms they can curl up and melt into.
Women can seem like a mass of contradictions; like a whole host of different wants that are variously at odds.
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Yet it all starts to make sense when you understand something in particular about women, that is true for ALL women:
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Every woman, no matter where she is in life, or what she wants (or says she wants... or THINKS she does!), ultimately wants THIS:

She wants a man able to make her feel taken care of.
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WHAT'S THAT MEAN, "TAKEN CARE OF"?

The reason women can seem so contradictory is that as their moods change, their wants change.
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1. A woman who's happy and sociable wants to talk and connect and party and feel free.

2. A woman who's lusty and horny wants to seduce and be seduced and get physical and shag.
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3. A woman who's sad and depressed wants to vent and feel heard and be comforted and reassured.

4. A woman who's uneasy wants to feel sheltered and protected, guarded and kept safe.
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But no matter WHAT state she's in, no matter WHICH set of wants she currently has, it all resolves down to wanting to feel like some man is taking care of her.

When she was a little girl, Daddy fulfilled that role.
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Now that she's all grown up and on her own, Daddy isn't around to do that and be that for her anymore.
So she's out there in the wide world, seeking a man to fill that void for her.
(not to mention to fill her... well, you get the point!)
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Most of the men she meets are DISAPPOINTMENTS.

They don't understand the mood she's in and DON'T know what she needs.
She does NOT feel "taken care of" with them.
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She voices needs, raises concerns, hints at desires... but this sails right over the heads of ordinary men.
If you can be that rare man who LISTENS when she says things, RECOGNIZES what she's saying, and takes care of her, you're IN.
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You are that guy who fulfills her needs like next to no other guy she meets.

That's a very nice feeling for a woman to have.
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YOU TAKE CARE OF HER, SHE TAKES CARE OF YOU

There is a kind of forgetting of the male and female roles that seems to have happened among a lot of people today.
Men no longer realize women want and need them to take care of them.
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Or, they realize it, but they feel like this is some kind of "burden"... like it's a lot to ask for.

But here's the thing: when you take care of a woman, she is going to WANT to take care of you.
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You also have to KNOW she needs to take care of you, and demand that, or be ready to walk if she doesn't, though, too.

Just like there are guys today who "just don't get it", there are girls who "don't get it" too.
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We call these people "entitled"... they want whatever they want without having to DO anything for anyone.
All those guys out there who think it's not their duty to take care of women (romantically, sexually, etc.) are doing you a favor.
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Those guys though are IRRELEVANT to you.

They're the dropouts from the sexual marketplace.

All they're doing is help make things easier for YOU.

But the GIRLS who don't get it are a small problem.
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They're not really much of a problem at all for a man who knows how to demand what he's worth.

Most girls are pretty attuned to their instincts...
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even if they THINK they can let guys take care of them and give nothing back, they realize it QUICK if a guy isn't going to tolerate that.

That's where frame comes in... you take care of her, but she's still acting haughty and standoffish?
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No problemo... just remove all that attention and caretaking you were giving her and let her STEW in the vacuum of all that good stuff you were providing her, gone away.

That gets 99% of entitled women in line toot suite.
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Here's the thing though: despite whatever stuff about modern women is out there, MOST women today still respond naturally to that "caretaken feeling."

When a girl senses that a guy is taking care of all her needs... when she feels:
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- Understood
- Appreciated
- Respected
- Desired
- Lusted for
- Cherished
- Protected

... and all the rest, all at once, from one guy?
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She will go ABOVE and BEYOND to do everything she can to try to keep that guy in her good graces so that he keeps taking care of her.

A man who's able to really take care of a woman is a rare thing in a woman's life.
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She lives her life every day.

She knows how rare this is.

She knows how much she wishes for this and does not get it.
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When a man shows her he can really take care of her, really provide for her needs, ALL her needs, almost every woman will do everything in her power to tend to HIS needs.
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And if she ever forgets to do that, a little removal of some of that caretaking she lives for is typically all it takes to inspire her to stop slacking off!
So remember it in your convos... remember it in your seductions... remember it in your relationships:
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A woman wants to be taken care of, in EVERY way.
The rare guy who shows her he can and WANTS to do that will have her eating out of the palm of his hand.

Your Friend,

Master Togan
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