Most men hide their options. That is why they lose leverage. You...

You don’t give names, stories, or a body count. You drop it calm and light, like it is normal.
You say something like:
“Can’t do Friday, already have plans with someone.”
Then you move on. No brag. No pause for her reaction.
That spark is preselection. It makes her text faster, dress better, and try harder in bed.
Never let the conversation become a confession or a jealousy fight.
The man with options talks like a man with options. She feels it before you ever list a single name.