THE GOOD LOVER "GAME" What I really like about this game is that it...
Master Togan@Getinwithgame
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Jul 08, 2025
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THE GOOD LOVER "GAME"
What I really like about this game is that it not only displays many attractive traits, but it also allows you to transition into other juicy topics related to sex, women, and seduction.
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What I really like about this game is that it not only displays many attractive traits, but it also allows you to transition into other juicy topics related to sex, women, and seduction.
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All are good subjects to escalate the vibe, as you may already know.
After this example, I’ll discuss the mechanisms behind it.
Here we go.
After this example, I’ll discuss the mechanisms behind it.
Here we go.
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You: Do you know what I find too funny about most men? (this is bait to generate intrigue)
Her: No?
Her: No?
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You: Well, they always try to impress women with what they’ve got, how much they earn, and material things. They buy women drinks, expensive dinners. In clubs, they may be flashy with expensive champagne. All this to get laid; it is a bit of a joke.
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Her: Yeah, it is, haha, but I do not mind some free champagne.
You: Of course not, & I don’t blame you. But I don’t think a glass of champagne would make you desire a guy, at least not on a deeper level. You won’t feel that strong emotional and sexual connection with such a guy.
You: Of course not, & I don’t blame you. But I don’t think a glass of champagne would make you desire a guy, at least not on a deeper level. You won’t feel that strong emotional and sexual connection with such a guy.
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Her: No, I suppose not...
You: Instead, I believe a man who is able to generate desire is much more powerful. The one who touches you in a way that leaves you wanting more, the guy with intriguing eye contact
You: Instead, I believe a man who is able to generate desire is much more powerful. The one who touches you in a way that leaves you wanting more, the guy with intriguing eye contact
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the guy whose words allow you to travel into your own mind, words that allow you to feel strong sensations. His actions make you feel feminine and good.
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Her: Yes! That is nice.
You: It surely is better than trying to impress her. Yet I believe there is one key element these guys are missing (you, by saying this, indirectly imply that you are not "these guys").
You: It surely is better than trying to impress her. Yet I believe there is one key element these guys are missing (you, by saying this, indirectly imply that you are not "these guys").
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Some guys can generate desire in a woman, usually through touch, and it is all good. You may feel excited, aroused, and stimulated by it.
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Her: Yeah.
You: But there is something else that goes in parallel that is, in my book, equally important. Not only will a good lover be able to generate strong emotions and create a strong desire, but he will also make you feel allowed to act upon this desire.
You: But there is something else that goes in parallel that is, in my book, equally important. Not only will a good lover be able to generate strong emotions and create a strong desire, but he will also make you feel allowed to act upon this desire.
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Her: So true!
You: Because he may create desire, but if you do not feel like you allow yourself to act upon those desires, you will resist and not feel at ease to act upon them.
You: Because he may create desire, but if you do not feel like you allow yourself to act upon those desires, you will resist and not feel at ease to act upon them.
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However, if you do feel allowed to act upon those desires, far less stimulation is required to generate desire because you will not need to “block” those impulses, but instead, you can act upon them freely.
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Her: Oh my god, so true!
You: And then, on top of this, if he actually delivers the juice and stimulates you deeply, while at the same time you feel allowed to act upon these feelings, well…
Her: Haha, yeah!
You: And then, on top of this, if he actually delivers the juice and stimulates you deeply, while at the same time you feel allowed to act upon these feelings, well…
Her: Haha, yeah!
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That's the Good lover's game. You get the idea. It’s an example, but other variations could work, including shortened versions if you prefer (or if the situation requires it, like in a club full of distractions).
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Again, like all my games, this serves as an example, and you could rephrase it with your own words and adapt it to your personality style.
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MECHANISMS AT PLAY
We accomplish many things with this gambit:
1. We set a light sexual frame by lightly introducing a sexual subject.
2. We pace her reality. We show a deep understanding of women, which can lead to deep rapport and a great connection
We accomplish many things with this gambit:
1. We set a light sexual frame by lightly introducing a sexual subject.
2. We pace her reality. We show a deep understanding of women, which can lead to deep rapport and a great connection
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3. You display indirect sexual prizing. By saying this, you show that you understand her on a sexual level. You also communicate that you are an experienced guy (sexually inexperienced guys would not say anything like this).
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And it is a fun subject.
Women usually lighten up right away from this game, and it is super safe to use. I've had no negative reactions so far (and I have used it for years).
But we can even go even further.
Women usually lighten up right away from this game, and it is super safe to use. I've had no negative reactions so far (and I have used it for years).
But we can even go even further.
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POTENTIAL FOLLOW-UP
If you feel like following things up, you may bombard her with some powerful sexually liberated and comfort-building frames.
If you feel like following things up, you may bombard her with some powerful sexually liberated and comfort-building frames.
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You: Well, now the question is: how does one make a woman feel allowed to act upon those strong emotions generated by such a sexy man?
Her: Good question. (or she may say something else; it doesn’t matter)
Her: Good question. (or she may say something else; it doesn’t matter)
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You: Well, first of all, maybe she needs to feel allowed to be with him on a social level, that the guy is socially acceptable to be seen with.
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He is cool, dresses well, and is socially smooth. In other words, your friends accept him. (here you sub-communicate that you are such a guy by communicating that you “get it”)
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Her: True.
You: And maybe she feels there won't be social consequences from acting on those desires, and that the guy with whom she explores those deep desires is low-key. So, what happens with this guy stays with this guy. (here you sub-communicate that you are low-key)
You: And maybe she feels there won't be social consequences from acting on those desires, and that the guy with whom she explores those deep desires is low-key. So, what happens with this guy stays with this guy. (here you sub-communicate that you are low-key)
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Her: This is so important indeed.
You: Here’s something important but rarely mentioned: what usually hinders her from acting upon those strong desires is that she may fear that the guy she’s with will judge her behavior.
You: Here’s something important but rarely mentioned: what usually hinders her from acting upon those strong desires is that she may fear that the guy she’s with will judge her behavior.
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She’s afraid he’ll judge her for acting on those desires. How can she act freely if the guy is judgmental?
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Her: Yeah, good question.
You: So maybe she can truly act freely on her desires if she feels the guy is man enough to not only accept them but also appreciate them.
You: So maybe she can truly act freely on her desires if she feels the guy is man enough to not only accept them but also appreciate them.
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Honestly, there is a beauty in seeing women express themselves freely. Or another way I like to put it: women are best enjoyed when they feel free. (here you have communicated that you are a nonjudgmental guy)
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Besides the additional pacing and the further display of knowledge about women, you also managed to sub-communicate that:
1. You understand women’s social resistance. You convey that you “get it”
2. You are low-key
3. You are nonjudgmental
1. You understand women’s social resistance. You convey that you “get it”
2. You are low-key
3. You are nonjudgmental
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And for all you know, you just managed to make her feel allowed to express her desires with you. Now all you need to do is generate more desire.
Escalation is one way, but a more heavy sex talk is another. Take your pick. She will comply
Escalation is one way, but a more heavy sex talk is another. Take your pick. She will comply
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