HOW WOMEN SELECT MEN. - Psychology Thread -
Subhan Qureshi@LearnWithSubhan
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Aug 27, 2026
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HOW WOMEN SELECT MEN.
- Psychology Thread -
- Psychology Thread -
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1. Women have two, conflicting instincts when choosing men.
On the one hand, women have the natural imperative to select optimal genetic traits, a.k.a. "alpha" males.
On the one hand, women have the natural imperative to select optimal genetic traits, a.k.a. "alpha" males.
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On the other hand, women want men who can materially provide for their families,
...commit to a long-term relationship, and enjoy interacting with children, a.k.a. "good relationship skills."
...commit to a long-term relationship, and enjoy interacting with children, a.k.a. "good relationship skills."
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2. Women prefer high-status men.
Women, are seven times more likely to have s*x with superior, rather than subordinate, men.
Women, are seven times more likely to have s*x with superior, rather than subordinate, men.
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To attract women, improve your social status. Give away stuff to make friends.
Help less-fortunate individuals, to show that you're above average. Lead groups, e.g., captain your softball team. Dress well, Speak well.
Help less-fortunate individuals, to show that you're above average. Lead groups, e.g., captain your softball team. Dress well, Speak well.
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3. Women are conflicted about money.
Women want "alpha" males who show off their money like peacocks show off their tail feathers, e.g., buying a round of drinks in a bar.
But women also want "relationship" men who put their paychecks into a mortgage.
Women want "alpha" males who show off their money like peacocks show off their tail feathers, e.g., buying a round of drinks in a bar.
But women also want "relationship" men who put their paychecks into a mortgage.
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4. Confident men who believe that their powers or circumstances can handle stressful situations attract women.
To attract women and improve your health.
Learn to handle stressful situations with confidence.
To attract women and improve your health.
Learn to handle stressful situations with confidence.
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5. Women rate tall, strong, athletic males as "very desirable" marriage partners.
Women are almost twice as likely to value physical strength in men, as men are to value physical strength in women.
Women are almost twice as likely to value physical strength in men, as men are to value physical strength in women.
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However, most women have to be realistic and would settle for a male just slightly taller than themselves.
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6. Men with good language skills attract women. Women love talking.
To improve your language skills, take a creative writing class.
Or memorize a few romantic poems. Or learn a foreign language.
To improve your language skills, take a creative writing class.
Or memorize a few romantic poems. Or learn a foreign language.
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Foreign women will think that a man who can conjugate verbs correctly in their language will make a good husband.
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7. Women select men who are, on average, three and a half years older.
Older men, in general, have more social status and emotional maturity.
Older men, in general, have more social status and emotional maturity.
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8. Women need safety.
She wants a man who can provide a safe and protective zone for her and her offspring.
But at the same time, she also wants him to satisfy her emotional needs.
She wants a man who can provide a safe and protective zone for her and her offspring.
But at the same time, she also wants him to satisfy her emotional needs.
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So challenge her. Add a little bit of mystery and unpredictability.
Give her drama, fun and adventurous moments, and wild sexual escapades, and you're all set.
Give her drama, fun and adventurous moments, and wild sexual escapades, and you're all set.
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