8 COMMON mistakes men make when approaching women: 1) Talking softly:
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Nov 26, 2025
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8 COMMON mistakes men make when approaching women:
1) Talking softly:
1) Talking softly:
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When you approach her, make sure your voice is audible.
Make damn sure you can hear the words coming out of your mouth.
Don't rush. Take your time. Stop being afraid that other people will hear you. This doesn't mean you should shout in her face.
Make damn sure you can hear the words coming out of your mouth.
Don't rush. Take your time. Stop being afraid that other people will hear you. This doesn't mean you should shout in her face.
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It takes confidence to approach women and be successful. And you must prove you are confident by being audible.
When she can't even hear the words coming out of your mouth, it means you don't believe in your own words which also means that you lack belief in self.
When she can't even hear the words coming out of your mouth, it means you don't believe in your own words which also means that you lack belief in self.
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2) Staring too much.
When you lock your eyes with her, approach immediately.
Don't stare for nothing. It makes you look like a creep.
When you lock your eyes with her, approach immediately.
Don't stare for nothing. It makes you look like a creep.
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3) Not smiling.
Women feed off your vibe.
If you approach her with a face as hard as rock, don't be surprised when she's too uptight or when she rejects you.
Women feed off your vibe.
If you approach her with a face as hard as rock, don't be surprised when she's too uptight or when she rejects you.
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4) Collecting her number before setting the date.
The only way to avoid wasting your time with any woman is to ask her out before asking for her number.
Don't wait until after you have gotten her number.
The only way to avoid wasting your time with any woman is to ask her out before asking for her number.
Don't wait until after you have gotten her number.
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It's better for her to reject you immediately than for her to flake later on as that's a waste of your time.
Setting the date before collecting her number helps you to know those girls who are genuinely attracted to you.
Setting the date before collecting her number helps you to know those girls who are genuinely attracted to you.
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This might seem like you are coming on too strong but you need to understand that most women have already decided to fuck you or reject you the first few minutes or even seconds after meeting you.
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5) Bad body language.
You are perceived as a more dominant, more confident, more friendly and more appealing man when your body language is open and not closed off.
You are perceived as a more dominant, more confident, more friendly and more appealing man when your body language is open and not closed off.
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6) Using pickup lines.
If you don't know what to say, you don't need to use a pickup line. Just say "hey" or "hi" or "good morning" or "good afternoon" depending on the time and then introduce yourself.
If you don't know what to say, you don't need to use a pickup line. Just say "hey" or "hi" or "good morning" or "good afternoon" depending on the time and then introduce yourself.
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You don't need any magic line to get her hooked. There's no exact thing to say. Keep it simple. Don't try too hard to impress her. You will definitely think of something after you approach.
Confidence is key.
Confidence is key.
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7) Trying too hard to impress her.
You don't need to tell her the kind of work you do or the amount of girls you have fcked or the amount of money in your bank account.
You don't need to tell her the kind of work you do or the amount of girls you have fcked or the amount of money in your bank account.
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8) Dressing like a peasant.
Your appearance matters. It matters A LOT.
This is why you need to put in effort into the clothes you wear.
Here are some dressing tips:
Your appearance matters. It matters A LOT.
This is why you need to put in effort into the clothes you wear.
Here are some dressing tips:
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• don't wear an outfit with more than three colors.
• use accessories such as a watch.
• don't wear clothes that are too big or too tight
• you don't need to wear something that is trending. Create your own unique style. In other words dress like a man and not like a boy.
• use accessories such as a watch.
• don't wear clothes that are too big or too tight
• you don't need to wear something that is trending. Create your own unique style. In other words dress like a man and not like a boy.
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