8 surprising things women WANT but most men never do: 1) When you...
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Dec 19, 2025
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8 surprising things women WANT but most men never do:
1) When you approach her, she doesn't want you to collect her phone number.
1) When you approach her, she doesn't want you to collect her phone number.
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When you approach her, tell her you would like to take her on a date and then collect her number.
Don't collect her number without making it clear what you want otherwise you will end up being placed in the friend zone.
Don't collect her number without making it clear what you want otherwise you will end up being placed in the friend zone.
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To avoid the friend zone:
You must stop trying to please her. Instead please yourself.
In other words, you need to be an asshole.
You can never stimulate a woman's emotions by playing it nice or safe.
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You must stop trying to please her. Instead please yourself.
In other words, you need to be an asshole.
You can never stimulate a woman's emotions by playing it nice or safe.
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2) She wants you to be unfazed by her beauty.
She knows she's already beautiful because that's why you approached her in the first place.
Giving her excessive compliments proves to her that you are a loser and that you can't hold conversations with women without...
She knows she's already beautiful because that's why you approached her in the first place.
Giving her excessive compliments proves to her that you are a loser and that you can't hold conversations with women without...
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...complimenting them.
What's more, complimenting her excessively inflates her ego, putting you in a very bad situation.
What's more, complimenting her excessively inflates her ego, putting you in a very bad situation.
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3) She wants you to be romantic but not too much.
For example buy her flowers. Compliment her. But remember, in anything you do for her make sure she works for it.
If you are romantic without her reciprocating your efforts, she simply won't value you in her life.
For example buy her flowers. Compliment her. But remember, in anything you do for her make sure she works for it.
If you are romantic without her reciprocating your efforts, she simply won't value you in her life.
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4) She wants you to make her chase you.
To impel a woman to chase you:
• you should not always be available
• focus on your mission
• have options
The harder it is for her to be in your presence, the more she will chase you.
To impel a woman to chase you:
• you should not always be available
• focus on your mission
• have options
The harder it is for her to be in your presence, the more she will chase you.
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Mind you, a woman who doesn't have a genuine desire for you won't give a shit if you aren't around her. In other words...
This will only work when she is desirous of you.
This will only work when she is desirous of you.
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5) She doesn't want you to ignore her misbehaviour.
Nothing quenches the lustful fire of desire she has for you faster than showing her that you can't stand up for yourself.
Nothing quenches the lustful fire of desire she has for you faster than showing her that you can't stand up for yourself.
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Women want a man who will correct them when they mess up. They don't want a man that doesn't put them in their place.
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6) She wants to be programmed by you.
You are her leader and she wants to be part of your life. And not a priority.
So you integrate her into your life by sharing your principles with her.
You are her leader and she wants to be part of your life. And not a priority.
So you integrate her into your life by sharing your principles with her.
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7) She wants you to make her feel special.
When she knows you are getting other bitches, you must make her feel that she's your queen and not one of your concubines.
When she knows you are getting other bitches, you must make her feel that she's your queen and not one of your concubines.
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Again, don't do this excessively. She must work for it through her actions or behaviors around you.
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8) She wants you to keep your struggles to yourself.
She doesn't care about how hard you work everyday. She doesn't care how you became a high-value man. She only cares about how you make her feel.
She doesn't care about how hard you work everyday. She doesn't care how you became a high-value man. She only cares about how you make her feel.
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Sharing your struggles with her makes you come across as a beta.
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