you're terrified of being the "bad guy" mf I AM THE BAD GUY stop...
Yegor@yegormethod
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Nov 14, 2025
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you're terrified of being the "bad guy"
mf
I AM THE BAD GUY
stop being
scared to send the cold dm
scared to ask for $10K
scared someone will call you "aggressive"
watched a guy doing $12M/year say something that made me laugh:
"i'm the villain in 100 people's stories
and i sleep like a baby"
you're desperate to be "liked"
he's focused on being paid
you're afraid to charge what you're worth
he's afraid of wasting time on broke people
you write "hope you're well!" in emails
he writes "price is $15K"
here's what people-pleasers do versus what winners do:
people-pleasers need approval
winners need results
you're asking:
- "is this too aggressive?"
- "should i lower my price?"
- "what if they think i'm pushy?"
he's asking:
- "can they afford me?"
- "is this worth my time?"
- "next"
liked = weak
feared = powerful
respected = the bonus
you want all three
he only needs the last two...
i am the fucking villain in someone's story right now
(mostly russian girls I used)
and my bank account says that's fine
study the yegor method
mf
I AM THE BAD GUY
stop being
scared to send the cold dm
scared to ask for $10K
scared someone will call you "aggressive"
watched a guy doing $12M/year say something that made me laugh:
"i'm the villain in 100 people's stories
and i sleep like a baby"
you're desperate to be "liked"
he's focused on being paid
you're afraid to charge what you're worth
he's afraid of wasting time on broke people
you write "hope you're well!" in emails
he writes "price is $15K"
here's what people-pleasers do versus what winners do:
people-pleasers need approval
winners need results
you're asking:
- "is this too aggressive?"
- "should i lower my price?"
- "what if they think i'm pushy?"
he's asking:
- "can they afford me?"
- "is this worth my time?"
- "next"
liked = weak
feared = powerful
respected = the bonus
you want all three
he only needs the last two...
i am the fucking villain in someone's story right now
(mostly russian girls I used)
and my bank account says that's fine
study the yegor method
