The Hidden Secrets of Having Lasting Bonds with Women: 1) Be Stingy.
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Nov 08, 2025
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The Hidden Secrets of Having Lasting Bonds with Women:
1) Be Stingy.
1) Be Stingy.
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To have lasting relationships with women, you need to be selfish with your:
• money
• attention and most importantly
• your commitment.
Every woman that comes into your life must earn the three things listed above.
• money
• attention and most importantly
• your commitment.
Every woman that comes into your life must earn the three things listed above.
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If she doesn't earn them, one thing is certain, she won't value you.
Because we humans most especially women often don't value what comes easy.
Because we humans most especially women often don't value what comes easy.
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2) Fvck with her mind.
Stop walking on eggshells around her.
Have the guts to share your thoughts. Have the guts to nit worship her beauty.
Have the guts to ignore her.
Simply be yourself. I don't know why this is hard for so many dudes.
Stop walking on eggshells around her.
Have the guts to share your thoughts. Have the guts to nit worship her beauty.
Have the guts to ignore her.
Simply be yourself. I don't know why this is hard for so many dudes.
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She wants a glimpse of who you are at your core.
She wants to see your authentic self.
She doesn't want to see the fake you.
Hiding who you are will only make you appear boring and thus unappealing.
She wants to see your authentic self.
She doesn't want to see the fake you.
Hiding who you are will only make you appear boring and thus unappealing.
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To bend a woman's nature to your advantage:
You must stop trying to please her. Instead please yourself.
In other words, you need to be an asshole.
You can never stimulate a woman's emotions by playing it nice or safe.
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You must stop trying to please her. Instead please yourself.
In other words, you need to be an asshole.
You can never stimulate a woman's emotions by playing it nice or safe.
Read my book:
durablemanlecture.gumroad.com/l/killingtheni…
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3) Treat her with respect.
Yes it's true women are manipulative. It's true that they are selfish and emotional. It's true that they are inferior to men.
But this is no excuse to treat her like she's trash.
Yes it's true women are manipulative. It's true that they are selfish and emotional. It's true that they are inferior to men.
But this is no excuse to treat her like she's trash.
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After all, she's human. So she deserves your respect. This doesn't mean you won't tease her. Or flirt with her.
It just means that you treat her like a human being and not like trash.
The only place she doesn't want your respect is in the bedroom.
It just means that you treat her like a human being and not like trash.
The only place she doesn't want your respect is in the bedroom.
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4) Keep Your Options Open:
This is the only way you can motivate her to please you.
She must never feel like her position beside you is 100% guaranteed.
The moment she feels that way, that's exactly when she stops pleasing you.
This is the only way you can motivate her to please you.
She must never feel like her position beside you is 100% guaranteed.
The moment she feels that way, that's exactly when she stops pleasing you.
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This is why you must never fall victim to complacency as a man.
Constant self-improvement makes it easy for you to attract women.
And this strengthens your bond with your woman or with multiple women.
Constant self-improvement makes it easy for you to attract women.
And this strengthens your bond with your woman or with multiple women.
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