Before you approach her, she has already concluded whether she...
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Oct 20, 2025
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Before you approach her, she has already concluded whether she wants to f*ck you or not.
Most men fail the eye test. Only a few pass it.
Let's discuss 10 Things that make you look instantly unattractive to women.
1) Fear of Losing Her.
Most men fail the eye test. Only a few pass it.
Let's discuss 10 Things that make you look instantly unattractive to women.
1) Fear of Losing Her.
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When a man is afraid to break a woman's heart, it means he doesn't have the balls to be himself. When he is afraid to walk away, she won't be attracted to him.
She thinks he is weak. He isn't masculine enough. He doesn't have what it takes to lead her.
She thinks he is weak. He isn't masculine enough. He doesn't have what it takes to lead her.
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2) Initiating contact immediately after meeting her in person.
This doesn't mean you shouldn't text a woman the same day you approached her.
This doesn't mean you shouldn't text a woman the same day you approached her.
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It means that you shouldn't be eager to text her after taking her out.
When you are too eager to text her after meeting her, it's a sign that you are a weak and needy loser.
When you are too eager to text her after meeting her, it's a sign that you are a weak and needy loser.
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As a man, you shouldn't be the one reaching out every time you go out with a woman.
Take a step back. Watch her actions and not her words, that's simply how you know whether she truly has a genuine desire for you or not.
Take a step back. Watch her actions and not her words, that's simply how you know whether she truly has a genuine desire for you or not.
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3) Failure to deal with her shit tests effectively.
If you easily get angry when she shit tests you, it's a sign that you are a boy in the body of a man.
A strong man amuses himself with a woman's shit tests. Here are some examples:
If you easily get angry when she shit tests you, it's a sign that you are a boy in the body of a man.
A strong man amuses himself with a woman's shit tests. Here are some examples:
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Her: "I don't like short guys"
Reply: "I don't like short girls either" with a smile.
If she's tall you can use "I don't like tall girls either"
Her: "What's your body count?"
Reply: "I have lost count".
Reply: "I don't like short girls either" with a smile.
If she's tall you can use "I don't like tall girls either"
Her: "What's your body count?"
Reply: "I have lost count".
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A strong man treats her shit tests like a toy.
He doesn't give her the satisfaction of rattling him.
Sometimes you can even ignore her shit tests completely.
I prefer this method.
I smile and ignore.
He doesn't give her the satisfaction of rattling him.
Sometimes you can even ignore her shit tests completely.
I prefer this method.
I smile and ignore.
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I prefer not to partake in her childish games.
Because I'm superior. I'm the prize why should I prove myself to an inferior being?
Why should I prove myself to a being who needs me more than I need her?
Why should I prove myself to a being who was created from my rib?
Because I'm superior. I'm the prize why should I prove myself to an inferior being?
Why should I prove myself to a being who needs me more than I need her?
Why should I prove myself to a being who was created from my rib?
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4) Rewarding her with your attention after she ignored you.
If a woman ignores you, you shouldn't chase her or give her more of your attention. Rather, ignore her too.
Fight fire with fire.
Don't fight fire with water.
If a woman ignores you, you shouldn't chase her or give her more of your attention. Rather, ignore her too.
Fight fire with fire.
Don't fight fire with water.
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Talk to other women.
Focus on yourself my bro.
Live and enjoy.
You should never be embittered that a woman ignored you.
Focus on yourself my bro.
Live and enjoy.
You should never be embittered that a woman ignored you.
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5) Ignoring disrespect.
When you notice any form of disrespect call her out on her bullshit.
Disrespect should never be ignored no matter how feminine or how beautiful she might be.
When you notice any form of disrespect call her out on her bullshit.
Disrespect should never be ignored no matter how feminine or how beautiful she might be.
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Ignoring disrespect means that you are a pussy.
And she will run from you.
And she will run from you.
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6) Indecisiveness.
A man who can't make decisions, is a pussy.
If you are always looking for people to make decisions for you or if you always want her to make decisions, you are an effeminate man. And she will never respect you.
A man who can't make decisions, is a pussy.
If you are always looking for people to make decisions for you or if you always want her to make decisions, you are an effeminate man. And she will never respect you.
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7) Seeking sympathy:
When you always try to share your struggles with people as a man, it's a sign of weakness and not of strength.
You are telling me you want people to tell you "sorry" for the things you are facing in life just so you can feel better?
That is a weakness.
When you always try to share your struggles with people as a man, it's a sign of weakness and not of strength.
You are telling me you want people to tell you "sorry" for the things you are facing in life just so you can feel better?
That is a weakness.
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A strong man keeps his struggles to himself because he knows it doesn't concern others. A weak man on the other hand seeks sympathy just to feel good about himself.
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8) Needy eye contact:
A lot of men make this mistake.
They always want to make eye contact with beautiful women without approaching them.
It's a needy behavior my bro.
It means you aren't getting pussy. Because if you were you won't be making unnecessary eye contact with...
A lot of men make this mistake.
They always want to make eye contact with beautiful women without approaching them.
It's a needy behavior my bro.
It means you aren't getting pussy. Because if you were you won't be making unnecessary eye contact with...
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...random women.
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9) Trying to make your ex pay for leaving you.
When you are seeking revenge just because your ex broke your heart in the past, you are obviously a foolish and weak man.
It's in the past.
You should never let it bother you.
You should be so focused on your mission...
When you are seeking revenge just because your ex broke your heart in the past, you are obviously a foolish and weak man.
It's in the past.
You should never let it bother you.
You should be so focused on your mission...
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...that you don't feel the pain anymore.
You should be so focused on your life that you completely forget about a woman who broke your heart in the past.
A strong man doesn't do revenge. He forgets completely.
You should be so focused on your life that you completely forget about a woman who broke your heart in the past.
A strong man doesn't do revenge. He forgets completely.
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10) You can't command respect from fellow men.
When she notices that your own gender doesn't have any tinge of respect towards you, you simply signal weakness to her.
Her hypergamous self will reject you. She will never consider you as the prize...
When she notices that your own gender doesn't have any tinge of respect towards you, you simply signal weakness to her.
Her hypergamous self will reject you. She will never consider you as the prize...
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...simply because your own gender doesn't even consider you as the prize.
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