Goal setting is a skill, just like learning how to swim freestyle....

There's a stick sticking up, you've got three rings, and you can stand anywhere you want to throw them.
Another group will go so far back they have almost no chance. It'd be a miracle if they hit it.
That's where you want to set your goals.
If you're standing right on top of the stick, what's the challenge? If you're all the way in the back, why would you keep throwing?
You want to be challenged by it, but you want a real chance to get there.
And keep practicing. You'll get better at it every time you do it.
