Go From "Nice Guy" to Bad Boy in 90 Days (Transformation Plan). -...
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Go From "Nice Guy" to Bad Boy in 90 Days (Transformation Plan).
- Psychology Thread -
- Psychology Thread -
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1. While listening, don't smile or nod.
When nice guys listen to women, they always have a smile on their faces.
According to studies, men who smile tend to look less attractive than those who don't since the less a man smiles, the more he conveys toughness and intimidation.
When nice guys listen to women, they always have a smile on their faces.
According to studies, men who smile tend to look less attractive than those who don't since the less a man smiles, the more he conveys toughness and intimidation.
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3. Act like a man.
Whether or not you have a romantic interest, you should never compromise your time, dreams, or plans in order to please someone else.
What you want and your desires and pleasures are more important than what anyone else wants.
Always put yourself first.
Whether or not you have a romantic interest, you should never compromise your time, dreams, or plans in order to please someone else.
What you want and your desires and pleasures are more important than what anyone else wants.
Always put yourself first.
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4. Give off dangerous vibes.
Men are capable of taking care of themselves, but only in dire circumstances.
Men are capable of taking care of themselves, but only in dire circumstances.
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What women want to know is that a man will jump to their defence if and when "shit hits the fan."
Men who are physically strong and don't back down from a conflict are preferred by women.
Men who are physically strong and don't back down from a conflict are preferred by women.
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5. Speak less.
High-value men don't say a lot. They simply know how to express themselves with the fewest words possible.
Speaking less makes you seem less needy and more mysterious. It also makes you more interesting.
High-value men don't say a lot. They simply know how to express themselves with the fewest words possible.
Speaking less makes you seem less needy and more mysterious. It also makes you more interesting.
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6. Stop asking for permission or approval.
Take firm action when faced with objections, particularly from women.
Take firm action when faced with objections, particularly from women.
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Don't judge whether you're acting "right" or not by looking at other people. Do what feels right.
A woman's experience is that if you cannot stand up to her, you cannot stand up for her!
A woman's experience is that if you cannot stand up to her, you cannot stand up for her!
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7. Develop irrational self-confidence.
Fvck the guidelines. Don't hold off on feeling safe. In any case, you can never be certain. Nobody can be certain!
Instead, project an air of irrational confidence and behave as though you know exactly what to do and what will happen.
Fvck the guidelines. Don't hold off on feeling safe. In any case, you can never be certain. Nobody can be certain!
Instead, project an air of irrational confidence and behave as though you know exactly what to do and what will happen.
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8. Stop giving a f*ck on everything.
For example, even though you would want to act like a total slob while you're around gorgeous women, you should strive to maintain the same level of relaxation you would if you were watching TV at home.
For example, even though you would want to act like a total slob while you're around gorgeous women, you should strive to maintain the same level of relaxation you would if you were watching TV at home.
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This can be really sexy since it conveys to those around you that you're cool, collected, and in charge of the situation.
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9. Put on a Bad Boy look and outfit.
You can't expect to be perceived as remotely manly by yourself or by others if you're wearing a five-year-old T-shirt, discolored pants, an oversized jacket and simple trainers.
You can't expect to be perceived as remotely manly by yourself or by others if you're wearing a five-year-old T-shirt, discolored pants, an oversized jacket and simple trainers.
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Here are the fundamentals of the bad boy style: Simple T-shirt, Jeans, Leather Boots, Accessories, Tattoos, and a Leather Jacket.
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10. Be self-sufficient and enjoy your own company.
You don't need others to be happy, and the less you rely on others, the more they rely on you. Develop a strong passion and pursue hobbies to fill your time.
You don't need others to be happy, and the less you rely on others, the more they rely on you. Develop a strong passion and pursue hobbies to fill your time.
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11. Be powerful physically, but especially emotionally.
As a man, you should be a source of strength for your family, friends, and especially women.
Stop whining. Realise that no matter how much you complain or vent, your situation will not alter. Instead, deal with it.
As a man, you should be a source of strength for your family, friends, and especially women.
Stop whining. Realise that no matter how much you complain or vent, your situation will not alter. Instead, deal with it.
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12. Make girls feel as if they can save you.
She must believe that she (and no other girl) has the magical, feminine power to save/tame you from doing reckless things (speeding, being impulsive, partying) and can bring out the sweet, sensitive person in you.
She must believe that she (and no other girl) has the magical, feminine power to save/tame you from doing reckless things (speeding, being impulsive, partying) and can bring out the sweet, sensitive person in you.
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