10 Ways to spot a Manipulator before it’s too late… (And how to...

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10 Ways to spot a Manipulator before it’s too late…

(And how to deal with them)

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1. Their problems are important, yours are not.

Every story you tell, they have something better.

Every problem you have, they have something worse.

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2. They don’t respect your boundaries.

After being around them you feel drained, tired, and confused.

They don’t care who they hurt.

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3. Constant drama

Watch out for people who:

•Lie
•Gossip
•Blow problems out of proportion

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4. They’re passive aggressive

Instead of being direct, they:

•Talk behind your back
•Turn others against you
•Make small indirect comments that make you confused

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5. Actions are different than words

Listen to what people say…

…Watch what they do.

Actions reveal more than words.

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6. They make you think you’re the problem by denying your reality, shaming you, or shutting down emotionally towards you.

Aka gaslighting…

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7. Silent treatment

They use silence to make you feel responsible for their bad behaviour.

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8. The eyes never lie

The eyes are the window to the soul…

Trust your intuition.

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9. They tell lies

They may exaggerate stories or events to make themselves look good.

And tell lies to feed their ego and manipulate how you see them.

Dangerous people believe their own lies.

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10. Victim mentality

Everyone is out to get them…

•People
•Society
•Government

They always make excuses, blame others, and rarely say sorry.

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HOW TO DEAL WITH THEM:

1. Know your boundaries

How people treat you depends on your boundaries.

Unclear boundaries attract manipulative people.

Know your boundaries so you can draw the line.

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2. Say NO

When you say yes to everything, you are saying no to yourself.

Stop being a people pleaser and put yourself first.

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3. Limit time with people who drain your energy

If you can’t, get good at ignoring (or confrontation).

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4. Distance yourself emotionally

Don’t accept the limitations they project onto you.

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5. Don’t apologize for problems they blame you for.

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