Within days of the creation of this account, Chan Kien Meng is...
stalker chan kien meng@kienmengchan
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Nov 21, 2025
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Within days of the creation of this account, Chan Kien Meng is scared (thank you everyone for sharing 🫶)
Chan Kien Meng could have stopped at any point within the last year and a half. Every time his account was blocked he found another way to continue his harassment.
Chan Kien Meng could have stopped at any point within the last year and a half. Every time his account was blocked he found another way to continue his harassment.
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I had blocked Chan Kien Meng on fb after he first found me and went on with my life. Did not realise the extent of his obsession until i heard from my sister months later
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When his identity was confirmed i responded for the first time, warning him to stop. His response:
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After Chan Kien Meng was notified of legal action being taken, refused cooperation, and was notified that legal documents would be sent his way per procedural requirements, he continued:
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When Chan Kien Meng was satisfied in his assumption that Malaysian law couldn’t touch him, he started gloating
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I hoped that would scare him enough to stop, but Chan Kien Meng disappointed yet again. Continues stalking me, finds my published research, makes it a point to let me know he’s found it.
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Chan Kien Meng keeps using the pretense of arbitration to solicit a meeting/chat because it’s his best shot at engagement so he actually understands i have not in fact been engaging via numbers and coded msges through captions and posts as he has tried to (almost laughably) claim
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I send him his mother’s number (which i obtained after tracking down his family address for process serving for my tribunal case) - the conversation i had with his parents is a whole other story. He flips out, gives me hope again that he might stop
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But even then, he persisted. All the way up to the day i decide to go public.
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I hope this contextualizes this offer to stop, showing it for what it is, calculated damage control in the interest of self preservation. Because Chan Kien Meng might have issues but his stalking and harassment is not the result of a lack of mental faculties
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I’ve gotten a lot of support from friends, and frequently mentioned is how he must be crazy etc. I also had the urge to rationalize such unacceptable unbelievable conduct this way, but genuinely it does so much damage to ppl who struggle with mental illness -
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- and removes accountability for people like Chan Kien Meng.
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Note that Chan Kien Meng has not acknowledged harm or wrongdoing nor apologized or tried to make amends for the damage he has caused.
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Pointing to past behavior, Chan Kien Meng suspended his harassment of his previous victim when he began harassing me (i say suspended not stopped bc the harm of harassment is knowing it could resume any time).
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If he does indeed stop harassing me, there is nothing to indicate he is remorseful or rehabilitated. Nothing to prevent him from simply picking another target.
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I would hate for the end of my nightmare to mark the beginning of someone else’s.