The set up you describe, where men have children by lots of...

Monogamy and the nuclear family call us to something higher. It’s not natural but supernatural. Man and wife become one at the altar in a mystical though still very real way. This is perhaps a riskier and more difficult path, but a man should not shy away from the riskier and more difficult path. The greatest happiness and most meaningful successes in life are found down this path.
One other point: if you want boys to become men, you cannot leave them to be raised almost entirely by women. Boys need the daily guidance and example that can only be provided by a man who lives in the home and has committed himself to that family and that family alone.
You are the captain of the ship. You need to be on the ship. You need to eat and sleep there and walk the deck with your crew. You need to be there when the storms come.

Which is why any man with a brain doesn’t hand over keys to his castle to a misandric legal system and over emotional unchecked females.
The worlds changed Matt. Women are a fraction of what they were.
Telling men to just get married and just be loyal gets men wrecked.
The only way they hold the relationship together is to give up any ounce of masculinity. Living hell.
The smartest move on the chessboard for a man now is to get rich and have as many children as he wants from as many women as he wants and take care of them all.
Second world. Avoid first world courts.
Own your empire and women will respect you in return for provision.
4 sons isn’t bad.
I have more.
And I always will.
And no woman can steal my hundreds of millions.
Marriage is suicide. Feminists built a world where females have no duty as wives and every possibility to destroy you.
If you can’t change the game.
Win the game.