The set up you describe, where men have children by lots of...

The set up you describe, where men have children by lots of different women, has already been tried. We’ve seen it in primitive cultures and we see it today in the most dysfunctional, filthy, and crime ridden communities in America. This kind of set up is “natural” in the sense that it appeals to our most base and uncivilized impulses. It’s primitive and animalistic, which is why it is so commonly found in the animal kingdom. Reptiles and monkeys behave this way. But we are human beings.

Monogamy and the nuclear family call us to something higher. It’s not natural but supernatural. Man and wife become one at the altar in a mystical though still very real way. This is perhaps a riskier and more difficult path, but a man should not shy away from the riskier and more difficult path. The greatest happiness and most meaningful successes in life are found down this path.

One other point: if you want boys to become men, you cannot leave them to be raised almost entirely by women. Boys need the daily guidance and example that can only be provided by a man who lives in the home and has committed himself to that family and that family alone.

You are the captain of the ship. You need to be on the ship. You need to eat and sleep there and walk the deck with your crew. You need to be there when the storms come.
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@BadQualityMemes We can refuse to give the time of day to the point of view he expresses on the issue, but millions of young men are giving it the time of day. We will have taken ourselves out of the conversation entirely in that case. I don’t see how that helps anything.