@retirementkeys: I’ve always found it interesti...

I’ve always found it interesting how dudes on the internet think the baddies are dating the gigachads

With the hottest chicks i’ve dated, i was always shocked how average the ex was. Some rando from HS. Some guy that sold cars. Some guy from work.

If you take sample of Extremely attractive women in US, most will love skinny soy types who wear cute outfits & are non-threatening. If you skinnymaxxed & fagoutfitmaxxed you’d probably pull “dimes” harder than you ever would going to the gym & becoming ‘dangerous’. Many externally attractive women don’t have the depth or width to appreciate a warrior, and only exist on the level of “pretty & cute” in all ways, so the men are often another extension of this. “If i become rich & can kill she’ll be attracted to me” is largely theory. IRL women have no conception of money & are usually scared of scary dudes. They often just want the guy to make enough to give them an IG lifestyle & fashionable enough so they can wear cute outfits together. But money is on backburner and “dangerous” is on backburner. Its actually rare you’ll see a dude like that dating a gorgeous woman. It is the exception. This archetype mostly dates/pulls bimbo-esque women

Point of post is if ur “doing shit” TO get women, u r largely wasting ur time. Nothing external will raise ur self image. U’ll pull exact same level of chick anyway unless u work on “pulling higher quality women”, which essentially doesn’t exist because you’re either her type or not, and you’re always you & have always been you anyway

Definitely hit the gym & become dangerous for YOU and those you love. You WANT to do these things. But at same time realize anything external won’t help you with the internal wars. U have to attack those directly. Dudes will make M’s & lifemaxx just to date a looksmatched club chick who’s lying about her bodycount anyway. And it actually often ironically flips/inverts when $$ comes into the picture because it narrows the man’s dimensionality

Nothing will pull more weight than loving urself. And loving urself is simply taking the shots u wanna take & realizing ur as human as greatest men to ever live

The difference though is that these women are not “queens” in the archetypal sense. They are gorgeous, yes - but lack dimensionality, and the man will normally also lack dimensionality as well. Hot & dumb merges with hot & dumb. Full width needs full width

If you ARE dangerous, intelligent, emotionally intellgigent, ambitious, gracious, discerning, playful, etc - you will want a woman who is capable of traversing the width of your being with you. But that is SUPER fucking rare type of woman, especially when you add any type of attraction variance to the equation. Meaning, if u find 1 that can go wide with u that alone is atoundingly rare, and chances are u probably won’t be that physically attracted to her when u find 1 based on % odds. Just how it is. Full width + “your type” physically is super rare, but does 100% exist. U just have to reverse engineer that what & where & u can run into archetype that u want, but there will be some lesdership required to make her who you need her to be. Lots of unwinding due to failure of fathers

So the good news? u just gotta be u, but the nongay version

Ignore typos, lazy

You’ll find the woman you’re most attracted to at a soul level will naturally magnify the best parts of you. The things you love to express the most will find a safe & receptive home in her aura, and won’t be without a landing zone due to either disinterest, lack of attention or lack of depth

there is a deeper, smoother, more “mature”/stable connection, but not in the boring sense of the word. Not in a “settling” way, but moreso in a maximally-compatible way. It is 2 becoming 1.

And to close the circle, this connection can be forged regardless of the size of your bicep or the cash in your bank account. It is YOU… and HER… connecting. YOU are not your muscles, YOU are not your cash. You HAVE those things. And this is why the external is largely a waste when it comes to winning any internal war

The real war is u accepting that the unfinished version of u can actually get it all. Unconditionally. Once u realize ur actually totally equipped, right NOW, then ur free to actually grab it

And after u grab it, u’ll realize ur the same dude, except u actualy went to grab it

What gets in the way of this connection is you telling yourself something like “well this can’t happen UNTIL…”. Some arbitrary conditional directly within the psychological lane of mindvirus that you’ve accepted & deemed as necessary

Most are actively (although subconsciously) cutting off potential connection/success. U can get the girl now, u can get the $$ now, u can send that shit now. Ur only opp is ur mind’s reasons to wait/delay

@harpymottaghi I don’t think you know what divine timing means

@harpymottaghi 😂😂

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